2014 in review

Pretty good start..

Thank you to all my blogger friends who visited my blog.  This is my 1st year and I appreciate the response I have got from you guys. Thank you so much. Wish to learn so many things about writing from you all.  I’m grateful 🙂

Thank you all once again 🙂

Happy New Year 2015 !! 🙂

Cheers!!!

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A San Francisco cable car holds 60 people. This blog was viewed about 880 times in 2014. If it were a cable car, it would take about 15 trips to carry that many people.

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Letter to you! Yes you can…

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Dear Monica,

All okay bachha??    I know you’re hurt. Please stop caring for people so much (just ignore and move on).  Stop getting so attached to them. See! You were so happy since morning, smiling all day and now look at you. Why are you sad??

See! You care so much for people around you.  They don’t give a damn and you always end up getting hurt.

Sweetie, why don’t you understand, you have no right to tell people what to do and what not as they are mature enough to decide for themselves.  Even though your heart says something and your head says sth else. You need to have control over your emotions.

But please dear! Stop caring so much for people even if you don’t matter so much to them. If you would matter, they wouldn’t hurt you.

So, my love, please mind your own business and you’ll be happy.

HAPPY NEW YEAR MY LOVE! Just Stick to your New Year resolution and you’ll be happy.

New year, New beginning and A NEW YOU!!! Be better than you were yesterday.

Change for better!  🙂  *Hugs*

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Much love

Your well wisher,

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Izaazat hai?

So guys, another shayari after so long…. How do you find it,please do reply 🙂

Izaazat hoti agar mohobbat karneki,

Hum sari duniya bhulakar tumhari ibaadat karlete,

Izzazat hoti agar dhadkan main basaneki,

Hum sara dard bhulakar tumhe seenese lagalete,

Na girte agar palkonse moti,

Hum chupkese tumhe palkonpe sajalete,

Tumhe apna keheneka haq hota agar,

Hum khudase tumhe duaon main maang lete…

Keep Smiling

xoxo

‘Or should I find a guy for you’?

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‘Don’t you think you should get married now? Should I find a guy for you?’, asked my cousin sister after I passed Grade-10. I didn’t know how to react to it. I had just passed ‘the iron gate ‘ (SLC) when she raised this ‘ANNOYING’ topic. I was irked, literally irked. I don’t know why this cousin sister of mine is after my marriage? She got married at the age of 17/18 doesn’t mean everybody should get marriage at the same age as hers.  I was just 16/17 years old then. I am 20 years old now and she is still after my marriage

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Why I’m writing this is I’m tired of this over-rated topic ‘MARRIAGE’. It’s not that I’ll never marry, I will. But only when the right time comes, when I’ll find someone with whom I would want to spend the rest of my life with. But before that, my answer is a big NO!! I don’t have a problem with marriage. I’m totally aware of this sacred relationship. It is, of course, the most special relation and closest bond one shares. But, I’m not ready yet.

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C’mon people, grow up!! I’m just 20.

In context of Nepal, when a daughter passes high school (best if is doing her Bachelor’s degree) , relatives start to worry about her marriage. I have 19 cousins (all together) and most of them are married by now. Some of them got married after high-school, and rest are still unmarried. Yesterday, we (me, my sister, mom, cousin brother and my mom’s younger sister) were talking about this wedding season as someone in our neighbor was getting married. And amidst the talk, my sister (Sri. ) dropped the bombshell.

Sri: This was supposed to be a secret but I think now I can tell you. Cousin sister had seen a guy for you. He was a doctor.”.*

Me: What the hell are you talking about??       m7

Sri: Remember when our aunt was hospitalized, there was a doctor in the hospital you passed the comment on? The one you didn’t like! He was the one.

Me: How do you know? Who told you? Why didn’t you tell me then?? Bla bla bla..

Sri: Chill babes!  I had promised her I won’t so didn’t tell you. This is natural, so don’t overreact.

Me: *blank*

Me: (took a deep breathe and said, “Keep calm dear! i’m waiting for my Mr. Right) —

I didn’t even know some of my relatives were seeing a guy for me and that too without letting me know? without my consent?  What?? She is concerned about me; that’s really sweet. But, finding a guy without my consent is not what I expected!!

I was really upset.